Things don't always go as planned, that's for sure. Life's going to throw you some curve balls, it's what you do next that counts. Sounds sooo easy when you read it, doesn't it. Just deal.
After not quite two weeks since my wrist injury, I am appreciating that life's most valuable lessons aren't going to be in a video or podcast. Nope, they're often presented as unexpected curveballs. So here's the learning so far...in no particular order, and honouring the fact that although my two finger typing is improving, this is going to be brief! Take from this what you need in a current situation you may be facing. Curveballs come in many different shapes and sizes.
Things to accept:
Your gonna need help (yikes). Ask for it. Not something many of you may be used to. Receive it with gratitude.
Letting go of control and the way it's supposed to be, because, at least for now, it's not.
Doing one thing at a time. Surprisingly difficult!
Things to learn:
When you're feeling shitty, don't unpack your bags and live there, pick yourself up, take the next best step and keep going.
It really does make a difference when you realize you're working towards something and, it's going to get better.
Although you may not like asking for help...people really do love to help!
Looking ahead:
Curveballs are there to knock you off your feet, sometimes literally, and they're a way to redirect you.
They aren't permanent but the lessons you learn can be.
When you reflect on your situation, in time, you're going to understand why it happened and possibly, be glad it did.
Let's get to it...
Your challenge for the next week...
Are you dealing with the aftermath of a curveball?
What can you accept about it?
Where's the lesson for you moving forward?
What if you look forward six months or so...what might you be seeing then?
As you recover, remember: No matter what you're working on, it's not going to happen overnight, it's going to happen over time. Maybe read that again.
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Stay safe and well.
Cheers,
Ann
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