Then you're going to have to get still.
Are you on the run right now? You're not alone. Many people coming out of the situation we've been in are currently “on the run” - specifically when it comes to their career. Thinking that the 'grass is greener', over there, and maybe it will be.
But here's the thing, running away from what you don’t want isn't the same as running towards what you DO want. How can you tell the difference?
You may find this question useful...
What do I want, more than what I don't want?
Think about it. When you're running away from what you don’t want, there may be an energy of fear, desperation and maybe some relief. However, when you're running towards what you want, there's a completely different feeling. Perhaps the excitement of possibilities or a fresh start.
When I look back on my ride so far I can clearly see (thank you 20/20 hindsight!) the times in my life where I was running away from something vs. running towards something. Maybe you can relate?
Here are some things you may recognize when you take a look back. When you're running from something you often end up exactly where you were before. Oh, the face in the relationship may look different, or the company may have a different name, the situation may look brand spanking new and then? All of a sudden, that person in the relationship acts a lot like the previous person you were involved with, or the job you're doing ends up being a lot like the one you left. Sound familiar? When you're “running away” you get what you get, and sometimes its good, and sometimes, it ends up being the same.
When you're running towards something you want and you're clear, it's a completely different experience. You don’t settle for the “this is as good as it gets” lie. You know that there's something worth striving for so, you keep going until what you really want presents itself. When you're clear, you recognize, and are ready and poised for the opportunity when it shows up.
Notice the difference? There is a confidence and belief that what you want is out there and you're not going to settle. You're comfortable with taking the time you need for the right circumstances.
Patience. Perseverance. Purpose. And, the one that sometimes gets overlooked? Thinking. Really taking the time to be quiet with your thoughts, allowing stillness. Very tough when "busyness" is your go to state and, for many, it is.
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Let's get to it...
Your challenge for the next week...
If you're on the run right now, whatever that may mean for you, here are some tips:
Stop! Before you go any further, stop.
Ask yourself: What do I want more than what I don't want? A trippy question and oh so useful. It may help you to recognize, that where you are is pretty great. Or, it may be the question that helps you identify what really matters to you.
Think. Be still. Take the time to be quiet with your thoughts. Journal if that's your practice.
Take the time to get CLEAR. This is the key to everything!
Then, put your running shoes on and head to that thing that's truly for you!
Are you on the run right now? My suggestion is to take some time to get clear on what you want, set your compass, and then get ready to lace up your shoes. It will be worth the investment in the long run.
Ready to reassess your next step? Contact me One thing that's become increasingly clear to me? Going it alone is not ideal.
Stay safe and well.
Cheers,
Ann
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