Ever called "shotgun!" to claim the front passenger seat in a car? Many people are familiar with the term "riding shotgun". In modern use, it refers to the practice of sitting alongside the driver in a moving vehicle. The second chair or assistant role. Important for navigation, and maybe some influence on the whole driving experience.
How about the driver's seat? When you say that someone is in the "driver's seat" you're suggesting that they are in control of the situation.
When you're in the driver's seat, you need to focus your attention on looking forward to see where you're going: You have a destination. When you're shotgun, it's less critical that you focus anywhere in particular. You have the freedom to look around and get the lay of the land. There's less responsibility and ultimately, less control, on the outcome of the ride. There are advantages to both of these perspectives.
Shotgun? There's much less participation and accountability. Driver's seat? A much more active role. You have to be alert, know where you want to go, and take the steps to do so. This may mean making a plan, having a map, or maybe having someone ride along with you to help you navigate.
Is there a situation where you're riding shotgun when you should be in the driver's seat? Just check in. It's okay to ride shotgun sometimes. Being in the passenger seat definitely has its benefits. It gives you a chance to relax a bit, and, if you stay there too long, you may start to zone out and forget where you're going. On the other hand, being in the driver's seat has many advantages: you get to set your direction, call all of the shots...own your experience fully.
Let's get to it...
Your challenge for the next week...
It's okay to take your hands off the wheel and let someone else drive every now and then. Maybe right now is one of those times for you. Cool.
It's also important to recognize when you've been coasting too long in the passenger seat.
For this week, check in. Is there a situation where it's time to switch seats?
Are you ready to get in the driver's seat again? Contact me You have all of the skills, strengths and capabilities you need. Let’s work together and reconnect you with them!
Stay safe and well.
Cheers,
Ann
Driver’s seat or shotgun?