It's never as bad as you think it's going to be.
I want to remind you that, you've:
Done new things before.
and the new thing became the old thing
Done difficult things before
and the discomfort dissipated
Failed before
and that became your victory story
Taken a risk before
and realized that it was so worth it
AND...none of it, killed you. Despite what you may have told yourself or what others may have told you, you survived! Bravo!
In fact, it probably became a part of your "story". The tougher experiences usually do. That's what makes them a story. No one tells you about the easy time they had doing something. People love drama, blood, and guts. The thing is, you're going to have to skin your knees a bit every now and then if you want to grow. Including growing your confidence.
I want you to think back to one of those specific experiences now. Just one time when you decided to do something new.
Either think it through or journal about it. Regardless, I want you to go all the way back and notice what was the very first step you took. Then go back just a little further, and notice what it took you to get going.
The first step always looks harder than it is...until you take it...
Are you ready?
Let’s get to it…
Your challenge…
Pick something that you know deep down you really want to have/do or be.
Then maybe start by:
Choosing to say yes to that thing that you want to pursue.
Before you feel ready.
Break it down.
Bite-sized pieces make new things easier to navigate.
Ask for help.
There are so many people who want you to succeed! Get a mentor or a coach!
Take a step.
I know. I say this all of the time and I wouldn't keep saying it if it didn't work!!
Remember that confident people feel all of the fear of discomfort, failure, and risk that you do. They've learned to accept these feelings and take action despite them. It's a practice.
Because...it's never as bad as you think it's going to be. I promise you.
If you're ready to take your first step Contact me You have all of the skills, strengths, and capabilities you need. Let’s work together and reconnect you with them!
Warmly,
Ann
It’s never as bad as you think it’s going to be…